Redefining Masculinity in Today’s World The conversation around masculinity is evolving. Gone are the days when boys were taught to “man up” or hide their emotions. At the Boys Mentoring Advocacy Network (BMAN), we believe it’s time to champion a new narrative—one where strength is measured by character, empathy, and integrity. Backed by research, we
Growing up, many of us recall moments of needing guidance, understanding, or a helping hand from someone who could see the world through our eyes—a brother we could trust and look up to. Whether you had a sibling or not, becoming the brother you needed when you were younger is a powerful way to give
The mother-son relationship is one of the most formative bonds in a boy’s life. While mothers often provide unwavering love and support, adolescence and societal pressures can create friction. Understanding these tensions is critical to fostering healthier connections. Below, we explore common frustrations boys report about their mothers, supported by research, and offer actionable solutions.
Lagos, Nigeria – February 5, 2025 – The Boys Mentoring Advocacy Network (BMAN) has received provisional approval from the Lagos State Government to operate as a registered Non-Governmental Organisation (NGO), marking a significant milestone in its mission to empower young boys and foster youth development across the state. The provisional approval was formally issued by
Abuse against men and boys remains a critically underreported and stigmatized issue globally. Societal norms often dismiss male victimization, perpetuating harmful stereotypes that men are “too strong” to be abused or “weak” if they seek help. This silence exacerbates trauma, isolates survivors, and allows cycles of violence to persist. At BMAN, we believe everyone deserves
Adolescence is a time of growth and self-discovery, often marked by a questioning of rules and authority. For some boys, this quest manifests as a strong desire to assert independence, sometimes leading to disobedience. Understanding these behaviors isn’t just about imposing discipline; it’s about comprehending the developmental, psychological, and societal factors at play. In this
Understanding the developmental journey of male children is a crucial component of effective mentoring and education. Each stage—cub, boy, and young man—brings unique challenges and opportunities. This blog post explores these three stages, drawing on research and data from around the globe to provide insights into how we can better support boys at each milestone
Ah, the fluttery feeling of having a crush! It’s a rite of passage that nearly every boy experiences, yet it can be both exhilarating and bewildering. Developing a crush is a normal part of growing up, offering a chance to learn about relationships and emotions. In this blog post, we explore the nature of boyhood
As we celebrate the International Day of Education, it is imperative to reflect on how education can empower the next generation, particularly boys, to navigate a rapidly changing global landscape. The transition from classroom to career is pivotal, requiring a holistic approach that goes beyond traditional academics. In this post, we explore strategies to prepare
The father-son relationship is a crucial aspect of a boy’s development, shaping his self-esteem, identity, and future relationships. However, this relationship is not always straightforward. Boys commonly face concerns about their fathers that can influence their emotional and psychological well-being. In this post, we explore these concerns, provide illustrative scenarios, and back our discussion with