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Yahoo Boy Myth: Why Rich Kids Are Just as Vulnerable as Poor Kids

Let’s tell the truth for a minute. If you ask the average Nigerian why young boys drift into cybercrime (Yahoo), rituals, or gangs, they will give you the same tired answer: “It’s poverty, Ola. The economy is hard. There are no jobs.” It sounds logical. It sounds compassionate. But it’s a lie. If poverty were

Why Is He So Difficult? The Truth About Problem Boys & How to Finally See the Boy You Have

As a mentor for boys and the founder of BMAN, I hear the same questions from parents, educators, and caregivers. They are questions born of deep love, but also deep frustration: “Why won’t he just listen?” “Why is he so difficult?” “Why can’t he be more like his brother?”  We see a boy’s behavior on the